Connection

Being connected with your spouse in all things is vitally important. As I read this week I had a memory impressed upon my mind. I was reminded of when my husband and I got married a few months ago and he surprised me our first day as husband and wife. While serving as missionaries we had a mission rule that we needed to share with our companions three things that we loved about them that day. And it was a rule that we do that each night. Well the first day we were married my husband began to tell the three things that he loved about me. I was so surprised and a little emotional. I hadn't done that or received things like that for over a year. For me this is an example of being connected with your spouse. Seeing the little things that your spouse does during the day that are good and that you love about them. And then spending the time to express those things that you love about your spouse to them are the little things that keep marriages together. The small and simple things are the building blocks of a long and healthy, happy marriage.

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